Every woman wants to feel beautiful, sexy, and attractive. A professional boudoir photo session can give you that feeling, boosting your confidence and letting you feel like a model for a day. Check out these 10 ways you can plan for the perfect boudoir photos to show off your beautiful self.
Find the right photographer.
More than any other type of photo session, a boudoir shoot requires you to choose a photographer you can trust. If you don’t feel comfortable with the person taking your photos, your anxiety will show in your images. You don’t want to look stiff and awkward, so choose a photographer who can help you relax and feel as beautiful as you are.
Buy something new.
What better way to feel sexy than to dress up in new lingerie? If you love the idea of fitted lace and accessories, check out your favorite boutique for some sexy pieces and personal service. Some local lingerie boutiques in Calgary are BraTopia, Crimson Lingerie & Apparel and Knickers ‘n Lace.
However, consider that a simple bodysuit is also super sexy, so if you’re more of a minimalist, look for a long-sleeved black bodysuit. Paired with the right bra and panties, this can be a showstopper!
Play some mood music.
Music at your boudoir session will make you feel more comfortable and confident. Take some time to create a playlist of your favorite songs—songs that make you feel strong, sexy, and powerful.
In my studio, I will play any type of music that you want. Think about the kind of music that gets you jumping out of your chair to hit the dancefloor. For me, old ‘80s classics like ‘Come on Eileen’ by Dexys Midnight Runners or ‘I Wanna Dance With Somebody’ by Whitney Houston come to mind, but maybe you’re more of a country girl or you really love jazz – you’re the star, so you get to control the playlist!
Change your look.
A boudoir shoot is a great time to try something new—a bold makeup look or a wild hairstyle. After all, there is an element of fantasy. There’s no one definition of sexy, so feel free to mix things up and embrace your personal beauty.
Want to go for a vintage 50’s hairstyle? Or keep it simple with long beachy waves? We’ll chat about it during your consult and plan the ultimate boudoir session customized just for you!
Practice posing.
It may feel ridiculous, but don’t be afraid to try out some poses before your shoot. Look through your favorite fashion magazines and try to imitate the models. Try arching your back and leaning forward. And above all, leave a little to the imagination.
Don’t worry about remembering poses, I will guide you the entire time, but it can be a good idea to get a feel for what some of the poses are like because they are usually NOT so comfortable! In fact, I recommend doing some light stretching the morning of your session to ensure that your body is prepared for a workout!
Embrace the nerves.
It’s totally normal and okay to be nervous. Feeling nervous means you’re outside of your comfort zone, which is awesome! The best things in life happen when we try new things! And don’t worry about what the photographer sees when they look at you—their job is to make you look gorgeous. They want to capture the best of you, and that’s exactly what they see.
Don’t worry about weight.
You don’t have to lose a few pounds to book a boudoir shoot. Come to your session as you are and let the photographer—and your wardrobe—make you look stunning. Your photographer can give you tips on dressing to suit your body type and will pose you in ways that highlight your beauty.
Be open to possibility.
A boudoir session requires you to do things you don’t normally do and strike poses you may have never even considered. Trust your photographer’s experience and be open to any ideas they have for your session. After all, their job is to make you feel gorgeous.
Drink lots of water and avoid overeating.
If you want to look your best and be comfortable, it’s important to stay hydrated and avoid any foods or drinks that could make you bloat. You also don’t want to eat a big meal before your boudoir session. If you feel overly full, you won’t feel sexy.
Have fun.
Above all, have fun with your boudoir session. Keep your mind open and trust your photographer to capture your best angles. Boudoir poses can feel pretty weird, but just relax and let yourself be guided for the best results. Your photographer will make you look and feel gorgeous!
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